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Private. Application only. UK & Ireland.

Drop the front.

For men who look fine and aren’t. A private peer community in the UK and Ireland for ADHD, burnout and the stress that comes with them. Pseudonyms. Peers, not treatment.

Step one takes a minute. A pseudonym, an email, where you live. The rest can wait.

0:25

25 seconds. What this is, in a synthetic voice.

Private by design. Member database in the EU (Ireland). No tracking cookies.

I read every application myself. Registration only for now. Nobody pays a penny until launch.

  • Pseudonyms
  • Peers, not treatment
  • No streaks. Ever.
  • Pause, don't quit
  • Application only
  • UK & Ireland

Who it’s for

01

Diagnosed late. Or still wondering.

Formal diagnosis not required; on or off meds, welcome.

02

Good at masking.

You do the job, climb the ladder, and nobody sees the noise.

03

Running on empty.

Burnt out by work, politics, or just being ‘the capable one’.

How it works

Every post says what you want back.

Just hear me out

No fixes.

Example

@lateagain“Third deadline I’ve missed this month. Not asking for tips.”

@slowburn“Read it. I’m here.”

What worked for you?

Example

@halfdone“Anything that gets you started on the boring stuff?”

@paperlist“A timer I can see. Ten minutes, then I’m allowed to stop.”

Give it to me straight

Example

@nightshift“Am I overthinking dropping the side project?”

@slowburn“You dropped it months ago. Make it official.”

What’s inside

Built for brains that disappear for a fortnight.

Private check-ins

Energy, mood, sleep, a win. Only you see them.

Energy3/5
Mood4/5
Sleep2/5

Win: “Sent the invoice I’d been avoiding.”

No streaks. Ever.

14 days away · nothing marked missed.

Lived-with reviews

Apps and systems rated on how long they lasted and what killed them.

Visual countdown timerWorked14 monthscheap upkeep

Pause, don’t quit

Pause instead of cancel: you’ll be able to freeze membership for 1–3 months, free. A pause keeps your place and your price.

Pause for

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The founder

Who’s behind this?

0:26

26 seconds. My words, a synthetic voice. No face.

Zaf, founder

Years in high-pressure jobs. Still in one. Diagnosed at 41.

Zaf’s what my mates call me. No surname, no face, no employer — same rules as you.

People saw me getting on with it. They didn’t see what was going on in my head.

I spent years masking. I could do the job, climb the ladder, move for work. Inside it got louder as the stakes got higher. I watched agendas beat merit, kept asking whether I could live with going along with it, and eventually I burned out. No neat comeback story. Just a place to say what’s really going on, hear what others have tried, and stop performing fine.

— Zaf

Members only · illustrative previews

Peek inside.

Example

ADHD

The noise behind looking fine.

Example

The ten-minute start

@example_halfdone

Started the boring thing. Stopped after ten minutes. Still counts.

Same · Helped

Example

Visual timer

4/5

@example_paperlist

No elaborate setup. Just a countdown I can see.

Examples, not member posts. The real conversations stay inside.

Pricing

Fifty out there. Five close in.

Centre: the founderInner ring: Inna Orbit, 5 placesOuter ring: Outta Orbit, 50 places for now
Founding 50

Outta Orbit

Founding rate, first 50

£12/month · €14£16 · €19

£120/year · €1402 months free

locked while your subscription continues

  • Feed with post modes
  • Lived-with reviews
  • Private check-ins
  • Pause anytime
Apply to join
5 places

Inna Orbit

Close in

£85/month · €99

£850/year · €990

  • Everything in Outta Orbit
  • Async DMs answered Tue & Thu evenings
  • One 30-minute call a month

Not coaching. Not therapy. Me, reachable.

Apply to be considered

We’ll email you 3 days before any charge.

Pause instead of cancel: freeze membership for 1–3 months, free. Your place and your price stay locked.

Cancel any time, no exit call.

Paying has never been the way in. Approval is.

Euro prices are rounded equivalents. All prices include VAT.

Applications are open. I read every one.

Apply to join

Outside UK & Ireland? Join the waitlist.